Christmas wishes for in-laws USA families love to send at the holidays carry warmth, gratitude, and a little American cheer. Whether you are writing to your mother-in-law in Texas, your father-in-law in Ohio, or your brother-in-law and sister-in-law across the country, the right words can make the family dinner feel even closer. This list brings together heartfelt, funny, and short messages made for American homes, snowy mornings, and long drives home for Christmas. In-laws become family in the truest sense at Christmas. They welcome you to the table, share treasured recipes, cheer for the same football team, and help trim the tree. A thoughtful wish thanks them for that welcome and tells them how much their love means through the year. Use these 45 wishes in a card, a text, a holiday letter, or a toast at the table. Pick one that fits your family, add a personal line about a shared memory, and send it early so it arrives before the turkey is carved and the eggnog is poured. Last up...
European Christmas traditions change from country to country: Germany has Christmas markets and the Christkind, Italy a gift-bringing witch, and Norway a gnome guarding the farm. Here are 30 unique traditions across 10 European countries, with native greetings and key dates.
Note: Christmas Eve (December 24) is the main celebration across most of continental Europe. Families feast and exchange gifts on the 24th; Spain celebrates through January 6, Greece through Epiphany.
Last updated: September 18, 2026
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Germany — Frohe Weihnachten!
1. Christmas markets (Weihnachtsmärkte). Over 2,500 markets open from late November — Nuremberg's Christkindlesmarkt and Dresden's Striezelmarkt sell Glühwein, Lebkuchen, and crafts.
2. Advent calendar and wreath. Germany invented the Adventskalender; families light one Advent wreath candle each Sunday before Christmas.
3. St. Nicholas fills boots (Dec 6). Children leave polished boots outside; St. Nicholas fills them overnight with chocolate, oranges, and toys.
France — Joyeux Noël!
4. Réveillon and Bûche de Noël. Christmas Eve dinner is luxurious — oysters, foie gras, roast capon — ending with the chocolate yule-log cake.
5. Père Noël fills shoes. French children leave shoes by the hearth; Père Noël fills them during midnight Mass.
6. Strasbourg, the "Capital of Christmas." France's oldest market (since 1570) lights half-timbered streets.
Italy — Buon Natale!
7. La Befana (Jan 6). A friendly witch flies in on Epiphany Eve, filling stockings with sweets — or coal-shaped candy for naughty children.
8. Presepi nativity scenes. Naples crafts elaborate nativity scenes in its Via San Gregorio Armeno workshops, dating to St. Francis's first living nativity (1223).
9. Feast of the Seven Fishes. On Christmas Eve, southern families serve a meatless seafood feast of seven fish dishes.
Spain — ¡Feliz Navidad!
10. Three Kings parade (Jan 5). Melchior, Gaspar, and Balthazar ride through every city on floats, throwing sweets; children open gifts January 6.
11. Tió de Nadal, the gift log. Catalan children "feed" a painted log through December, then tap it with sticks so it drops small gifts.
12. El Gordo lottery (Dec 22). The world's largest lottery — children sing the winning numbers on live TV.
Norway — God jul!
13. Christmas Eve is the main event. Gifts open and dinner lands on Dec 24: ribbe (pork ribs), pinnekjøtt (salted lamb), and lutefisk.
14. Porridge for the Julenisse. Families leave rice porridge for the barn gnome; whoever finds the hidden almond wins a prize — often a marzipan pig.
15. Hiding the brooms. Old belief says witches steal brooms on Christmas Eve, so families hide theirs.
Denmark — Glædelig jul!
16. Woven paper hearts (julehjerter). Children weave red-and-white hearts for the tree — a tradition started by Hans Christian Andersen in the 1860s.
17. Julebryg beer launch. Each November, Tuborg's Christmas beer launches at 8:59 p.m. sharp; bars fill within minutes.
18. Risalamande and the almond game. Dinner ends with cold rice pudding and cherry sauce; whoever finds the hidden almond wins a prize — but must hide the fact.
Ireland — Nollaig Shona!
19. The candle in the window. On Christmas Eve, a lit candle welcomes Mary and Joseph — and any traveler needing shelter.
20. Wren Day (Dec 26). On Lá an Dreoilín, straw-costumed groups parade with a fake wren, singing and collecting for charity.
21. The Christmas Day swim. Thousands plunge into the freezing sea Christmas morning — most famously at Dublin's Forty Foot.
Poland — Wesołych Świąt!
22. Wigilia supper of twelve dishes. On Dec 24, families fast all day, then share a meatless feast — barszcz, pierogi, carp — plus an extra plate for a guest.
23. Sharing the opłatek wafer. Everyone breaks a thin wafer with each person at the table, exchanging wishes; no one eats until the first star appears.
24. Kraków's szopki. A competition for nativity scenes built like miniature cathedrals, some six feet tall, in the Main Market Square.
Czechia — Veselé Vánoce!
25. Carp in the bathtub. Before Christmas, families keep a live carp in the bathtub for the Christmas Eve table.
26. Christmas Eve fortune-telling. Cut an apple crosswise: a star means good luck. Girls throw a shoe over their shoulder — toe to the door means marriage.
27. Ježíšek brings the gifts. Czech children believe the Baby Jesus delivers presents Christmas Eve, announced by a ringing bell.
Greece — Καλά Χριστούγεννα!
28. The decorated Christmas boat (karavaki). Before trees, Greek families decorated small wooden boats with lights, honoring sailors returning home.
29. Kalanda carols. On Christmas Eve, New Year's Eve, and Epiphany Eve, children knock on doors singing carols with triangles, for coins and treats.
30. St. Basil brings the gifts. Agios Vasilis delivers presents on New Year's Day; the hidden coin in the vasilopita cake brings a lucky year.
Frequently Asked Questions
When do most Europeans exchange gifts? Continental Europe exchanges gifts on Christmas Eve (Dec 24); Italy and Spain wait until Epiphany (Jan 6); the Dutch celebrate Sinterklaas on Dec 5–6.
Which country has the best Christmas markets? Germany set the template — Nuremberg, Dresden, Cologne — but Vienna, Strasbourg, and Prague are equally magical. For value, try Kraków.
Who brings presents in Italy? La Befana, a friendly witch, fills stockings on the night of January 5 — Italy's traditional gift day.
What is Krampus? A horned Alpine creature accompanying St. Nicholas; at early-December Krampuslauf parades in Austria and Bavaria, costumed figures roam the streets.
How do you say Merry Christmas around Europe? Frohe Weihnachten (German), Joyeux Noël (French), Buon Natale (Italian), Feliz Navidad (Spanish), God jul (Norwegian), Glædelig jul (Danish), Nollaig Shona (Irish), Wesołych Świąt (Polish), Veselé Vánoce (Czech), Kalá Christoúgenna (Greek).
Is Christmas different in Orthodox countries? Greece celebrates Dec 25, but Russia, Ukraine, and Serbia follow the Julian calendar (Jan 7).
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